I was at the lowest point, sitting on my little bed in Hilda’s house, laptop in hand, talking to my brother, looking up places online. I had practically given up with trying to find a place and I was toying with the idea of hiring an agent to do all the dirty work. It was late at night, almost midnight, and the exhaustion was getting the best of me. I was tired, lonely, and upset that nothing was working out and no one was getting back to me. As I went to bed, I knew what I was going to do in the morning.
The next day, I borrowed Hilda’s phone and went into my room and saw my list of houses that I have tried to contact. Glancing through them I noticed one that I had tried to get ahold of a while back and thought, what the hell, I’ll try calling him first- you never know. I can always call the agents after.
After two rings, a man named Gerry answered the phone. He told me there was another girl there looking at the house and wondered if I was able to come over right then. Naturally, this got my excited since it was so difficult to get a response, let alone get a viewing. I told him I could be there in 30 minutes and I left right then.
Sitting there, drinking tea with them, I knew that this was right. He offered me the place right then and there. Telling me I could move in the next day. Knowing that I would finally have an Irish address, I was one happy girl. It is such an amazing feeling knowing that I have a place to live here and that I can call it my own (to the extent of having roommates).
My room is an average sized room. It has a wardrobe, a nightstand, and a double bed. The bed is probably the only thing that is not good. Sleeping on that bed is worse than sleeping on the ground with rocks under you with no sleeping bag. It is all springs- no padding. I am going to talk to the landlord, Gerry, when he comes by to help the new girl move in, and hopefully, this bed will be gone soon and replaced with another one, a better one! Right now, I have every single blanket that I could find under my down comforter trying to pad it, but that is not helping. If he doesn’t get me a new bed (which I think he will) but if he doesn’t, I will get one of those memory pads that goes on top the mattress- a very thick memory pad. Hopefully, that will help… hopefully.
The house itself is a three bed, three bath in Windy Arbour. It is pretty nice and in a good location, about 20 minutes away from campus, in a family residence that is very safe. We are getting it all cleaned, moving things around and making it feel like our own. The one roommate that I am currently living with is actually American. Her name is Erin from DC and is doing a Masters in Sports Management. We both moved in at the same time and are waiting for the last girl to move in. The past couple of days have been good, getting to know her and getting situated. Yesterday, we interview a girl from Cork who is doing a Masters in Science and Business. (I don’t really understand what her degree entails, so don’t ask.) We also interviewed a girl from Italy, studying Educational Child Psychology, but she was so demanding it was crazy. Not nice at all and she kept telling us that she would take the place but only because it was a last resort and that she wasn’t happy with it at all. By the end of the conversation, she had told us her opinion on everything. Needless to say, Erin and I both agreed that the girl from Cork was the best candidate. She was more respectful and you could tell that she actually wanted the place. We called Gerry, our landlord who couldn’t make it to the meeting, and told him what we thought and he decided to meet up with her and offer her the room. We are not sure when she is moving in, but I am sure within the next couple of days.
I am so happy that I was able to find a place and unpack my suitcases. Not having your own place, not having your own things around you, it does something to you. I know some people can do it for long periods of time, but I need to have my own place. I need to be able to unpack and relax. I think the only time that I could do it is if I knew that I was only traveling and that I would eventually go home to my place. Needless to say, I am happy that I have an Irish Address and that I have one less stress off my shoulders.
Now, I just have to make it through orientation on Wednesday…. eeek.
